Help! I want to give up breastfeeding!

Read this before you do anything!

Registered Nurse, Midwife and Child Health Nurse / December 14 2018

Some of the reasons you may find it uncomfortable 

·       Breast engorgement  

·       Mastitis   

·       Blocked milk ducts

·       Cracked and tender nipples

·       Painful let down


How to get through the tough days!

It can be very tempting for mothers to reconsider if breastfeeding really is worthwhile, especially when it is painful.  But it is almost always worth persevering, if you can. BUT don’t feel that you are a failure if you can't. You're not. And you are on your own.  

Many breastfeeding problems are resolved by ensuring the baby is correctly attached and sucking effectively on the breast.  Frequent feeding, good attachment as well as time and expert support almost always help. Be patient, most breastfeeding problems resolve with time and perseverance.

 When to take a break from breastfeeding
Occasionally it can be necessary to have a short break from breastfeeding and for a mother to express her breast milk.  Reasons vary but are generally related to breast or nipple pain, maternal or infant illness, periods of separation or returning to work.

Ideally, when a baby is not directly breastfeeding, they are having expressed breast milk (EBM) from a bottle or a feeding cup. Feed times can then become an opportunity for partners and family to share this special time with the baby.

Devices that can help you 

There are many breastfeeding accessories out there that are designed to make breastfeeding more comfortable and enjoyable.


Breast Pumps:  these come in either manual or electric options. Many of them will provide comfortable, easy expressing options for mothers who are keen to maintain their breast milk supply during periods of nipple healing. 

Breast Pads: these help absorb leaking breast milk, ensuring comfort and dryness.  This is especially important for healing cracked nipples.

Heat or cold packs: When warm, these can support milk flow by eliciting a mother’s “let-down” before feeding.   For breast pain due to engorgement, a cooled pad provides soothing relief.

Nipple shields: these provide relief for sore or cracked nipples. They can also be used for mothers who have inverted or flat nipples and need help with attachment.

Breast shells: these are a protective cover designed to protect sore nipples and support healing by allowing air to circulate. They are worn inside the mother’s bra and also act as a reservoir for breast milk which would otherwise be absorbed by a breast pad.


Please note: Seek advice from a healthcare professional if you need additional support. 


Jane Barry is a spokesperson for Philips AVENT