Blogger's important message for mums

The mum behind the Instagram account, The Nashville Bump, is reminding mums to go easy on themselves.

February 09 2017

Every baby is different. Every baby is a tiny human that's half you and half the person you love. How amazing is that? How can we compare these tiny humans? Comparing weight, height, percentiles, birth weights, sleep habits, feeding times, etc. We have such high expectations for these brand new humans, but they are only learning about our world and we are learning about them. So take it easy mama. Remember these first 12 weeks (and beyond) are all about them learning how to live in our world and we are learning how to be mamas. SOOOO much love to everyone today. I know it's hard, but it's also so damn beautiful! ❤️ Blankie by @cozys_ * * * #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #momtribe #tribe #mom #momlife #momstrong #momsofinstagram #ig_baby #letthembelittle #healthypregnancy #babywearing #babygirl #8weekspostpartum #breastfeeding #fitmom #babymodel #model #happy #chubby #fitpregnancy #babystagram
Every baby is different. Every baby is a tiny human that's half you and half the person you love. How amazing is that? How can we compare these tiny humans? Comparing weight, height, percentiles, birth weights, sleep habits, feeding times, etc. We have such high expectations for these brand new humans, but they are only learning about our world and we are learning about them. So take it easy mama. Remember these first 12 weeks (and beyond) are all about them learning how to live in our world and we are learning how to be mamas. SOOOO much love to everyone today. I know it's hard, but it's also so damn beautiful! ❤️ Blankie by @cozys_ * * * #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #motherhoodrising #momtribe #tribe #mom #momlife #momstrong #momsofinstagram #ig_baby #letthembelittle #healthypregnancy #babywearing #babygirl #8weekspostpartum #breastfeeding #fitmom #babymodel #model #happy #chubby #fitpregnancy #babystagram

She added: “Comparing weight, height, percentiles, birth weights, sleep habits, feeding times, etc. We have such high expectations for these brand new humans, but they are only learning about our world and we are learning about them.

“So take it easy mama. Remember these first 12 weeks (and beyond) are all about them learning how to live in our world and we are learning how to be mamas. SOOOO much love to everyone today.

“I know it's hard, but it's also so damn beautiful!” 

Ok, I'm going to say it for us all. Breastfeeding is hard. It's really, really hard. Sometimes I can't even explain what makes it so difficult. The uncertainty, second guessing, responsibility, commitment, discomfort...just to name a few. We trusted our bodies to grow our babies for 9 months and now we have to trust our body to supply the nourishment for our babes growth & development. Talk about pressure😳 Breastfeeding is full of unanswered questions. You truly don't know what's going on down there. Too much? Too little? Too intense? Not enough hindmilk? Not enough time? Plugged duct? Mastitis? WTF!!! As if it wasn't hard enough😓And of course the biggest way to know if you're doing well is if the baby is gaining weight...great, let me just whip out my handy dandy baby scale😑..But, even with all of that. We all so desperately want to survive and push through. We so badly want to have our baby thrive. We want that relationship. We want the experience. In the end, fed is best. That's what matters. But all I know right now is that breastfeeding is hard. I am doing my very best but always have a question in the back of my mind. Always second guessing myself. Always wondering if I'm doing OKAY. I'm determined to tough it out. I want to do this. Mamas really do need all the support they can get. So mama, you're hearing it from me, you're not going crazy, it is hard, but you're doing good. Keep going!! There's a rumor going around that it gets easier😌 * * * #motherhoodrising #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #postpartum #breastfeeding #ebf #fedisbest #baby #newborn #mom #mama #momlife #fitpregnancy #pregnant #pregnancy #babygirl #letthembelittle #laleche #momstrong #fitmom #mommy #daughter #ig_baby #ig_motherhood #newmom #healthypregnancy #strongmom
Ok, I'm going to say it for us all. Breastfeeding is hard. It's really, really hard. Sometimes I can't even explain what makes it so difficult. The uncertainty, second guessing, responsibility, commitment, discomfort...just to name a few. We trusted our bodies to grow our babies for 9 months and now we have to trust our body to supply the nourishment for our babes growth & development. Talk about pressure😳 Breastfeeding is full of unanswered questions. You truly don't know what's going on down there. Too much? Too little? Too intense? Not enough hindmilk? Not enough time? Plugged duct? Mastitis? WTF!!! As if it wasn't hard enough😓And of course the biggest way to know if you're doing well is if the baby is gaining weight...great, let me just whip out my handy dandy baby scale😑..But, even with all of that. We all so desperately want to survive and push through. We so badly want to have our baby thrive. We want that relationship. We want the experience. In the end, fed is best. That's what matters. But all I know right now is that breastfeeding is hard. I am doing my very best but always have a question in the back of my mind. Always second guessing myself. Always wondering if I'm doing OKAY. I'm determined to tough it out. I want to do this. Mamas really do need all the support they can get. So mama, you're hearing it from me, you're not going crazy, it is hard, but you're doing good. Keep going!! There's a rumor going around that it gets easier😌 * * * #motherhoodrising #motherhood #motherhoodunplugged #postpartum #breastfeeding #ebf #fedisbest #baby #newborn #mom #mama #momlife #fitpregnancy #pregnant #pregnancy #babygirl #letthembelittle #laleche #momstrong #fitmom #mommy #daughter #ig_baby #ig_motherhood #newmom #healthypregnancy #strongmom

Leah struck a chord with mums around the globe last month with a post explaining why breastfeeding is so hard.

“Ok, I'm going to say it for us all. Breastfeeding is hard. It's really, really hard. Sometimes I can't even explain what makes it so difficult,” she writes.

“We trusted our bodies to grow our babies for 9 months and now we have to trust our body to supply the nourishment for our babes growth & development. Talk about pressure.”

Speaking to the Huffington Post, Leah revealed what she wished she knew before she began breastfeeding.

“I had seen so many pictures on social media of mothers blissfully breastfeeding their babies that I didn’t realise it’s not always like that,” she said. “It seemed so easy and natural for them, but even things that are easy and natural can be a learning experience for many people.”

“It takes more than a breast to feed a baby!” she added. “It takes time, patience, support, proper nutrition, confidence and sometimes professional help to overcome your breastfeeding struggles.”